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Monday 19 March 2012

Once you go black...

If you've watched, or read 'The Help', you were probably, like us, appalled by the way 'black' people were treated back then. Or rather, to be more honest there, you were annoyed to be reminded of how cruel we can get (oblivion is so much more comfortable when it comes to these things, isn't it?) Black house-helpers were even forced to use a 'special' bathroom because they were believed to carry diseases. It was OK for them to bring up white people's children, though. They weren't scared their children would contract this mysterious disease black people carried.

And that's simply the tip of the iceberg. Racial segregation in the US meant that 'blacks' and 'whites' were required to use separate facilities - those for African-Americans generally being of lesser quality. There were special schools, buses, universities - you name it and they had it. All to ensure that white and coloured people didn't mix. All this was covered up by the 'Separate but Equal' slogan. Thank goodness, however, this 'practice' was outlawed in 1964, while the apartheid was still going on in full swing in South Africa.

Seperate Drinking Fountains for Whites and Coloured people in the USA.
White-Area beach sign in South Africa

A few weeks ago we were sitting on a bus on our way to Valletta. We were lucky to grab a free seat as the bus got beyond packed in an instant. The aisle was absolutely jammed with people and of course, all the seats were taken. Bar one.

Yeah, you might ask "and why didn't anyone take the seat?" Well, a coloured man was sitting on the seat next to it. Coincidence? We think not. (Don't worry - it was then taken up... But that's not the point, is it? The problem is that for some minutes there, people preferred to stand! And if you say this has never happened when you were on a bus, then we know you're lying.)

Isn't racial discrimination a thing of the past? Didn't the emancipation of coloured people bring racial discrimination to its death?

What is it about people that makes them so judgemental? Why do we (yes, we do, like anyone else on this planet) discriminate, so ready to point fingers? What's in a colour, anyway? What makes pale skin superior to a dark one? If you've got answers, do please forward them to us, cause we don't.

We're in 2012, 21st Century, the century of progress - or is it? We've had technological advancement; we've had medical advancement; science advancement... BUT, our mindsets are just as rotten as they used to be! People might claim they're open-minded and tolerant and what not - otherwise they're not deemed cool enough. Yet, when push comes to shove, many choose to stand rather than sit next to that coloured man. Because hey, we'd be deadly plagued if we did!

Granted, we've seen giant steps made forward - just look at the USA, coloured president, how's that for change? We can also see coloured people at the helm of important businesses and industries - men and women - in many parts of the globe. Having said that, many people remain hostile towards people of colour. Case in point is Malta.

As a tiny island bridging Europe and Africa, we get the primary impact that comes with the influx of African refugees into Europe. Of course, Malta isn't the only country 'suffering' this influx, Italy and Spain are inundated with illegal immigrants, too, for instance. However, given our tiny stature, it's bound to affect us more. Add to that the small island mentality that plagues the narrow minds of  many Maltese and of course, you have a lethal concoction of xenophobia in its purest form.

Yes, because you are completely wrong if you think the Maltese don't like coloured ones only because they come and take our jobs - and what jobs do they take anyway? No, the reason is still the same - some (a good percentage that is, but when writing, euphemism is very handy) Maltese suffer from this serious case of inborn phobia for anything/anyone different. Reason for which, many in here seem to believe this is a blessed island ...and don't you dare say there's better. (In all honesty, southern Italy is just as bad as us,  but that's no consolation, is it?)

Of course, all races are equal by law. Yet, the law can never change mentality and society's point of view. It is the people that have to learn how to be more tolerant, how to treat everyone equally, regardless of the colour of their skin. And with that, we don't mean the government should do more with the education system. In reality, those hours at school during which we are told to respect everyone (ghax hi, ahna kollha brothers u sisters) are just pointless! If the same children have a certain upbringing, some lessons simply won't change what they would have acquired at home...

15 comments:

  1. So come next saturday at 11-12 infront of the parliament for the 'protest' against institutionalised racism

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  2. I was glad that my parents are very tolerant to black people and be sure that they can take a seat close to them. But when I told my mum that I like black men and probably I can get married to one of them my mum was against it. What do you think? Is it racism?

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    1. that reminds me .. I had a friend when we were at secondary school, she used to dream about having a black baby and adored black men in general. At first everyone, including me, was like "really? :O" and then everyone got used to it.. when you realise that it's the exact same thing if someone is perceived as unattractive because they have a different eye colour than that of the "norm".

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  3. No, indon't think that's discrimination. I agree with you and i would saay the same to my daughter in reality because we have many stories that ended badly when such marriages took place.

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    1. we also have had abusive, horrible marriages when it's Maltese to Maltese.. I don't see your point, sorry. It's a matter of choice. And in the end, you can advice your daughter and tell her to be cautious, but telling her what to do will only drive her away from you..

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    2. And, on the contrary, those who marry people who embrace the same religion (for you probably were pointing fingers at religion there) always live happily ever after... Is that what you mean? Jihdu gost jismghuk titkellem ta' Kana eh!

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    3. @Anonymous- I am sorry to say but you saying this makes you as the person discriminating. Marriages are a two way thing. What makes you think it is always the black man's fault in mixed racial marriages?

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  4. Josephine Ciantar20 March 2012 at 17:39

    I don't know why your mother said that silina, but i think that different cultures shouldn't mix because then we see that cultures finish and disappear. I think the nice thing of the world is that there is diversity and if we start marrying too much into different cultures we sort of ruin that.

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    1. I don't see your point. You're entitled to your opinion, most certainly and I respect that.. but you also have to understand that you're talking about humans, not dog breeds, and that is quite offensive to children whose parents are not from the same cultures. I have a Maltese friend and her dad is black, she's GORGEOUS. I think that's a BEAUTIFUL thing, and not something we should look at as unnatural #just my opinion :)

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    2. I don't see Josephine's point either !Josephine- I don't think you know the meaning of diversity!

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  5. Racism is a problem that affects all the world and not only Malta ...
    Yes, i think that this problem has always existed but increases strongly in times of economic crisis ...
    It's normal, the people have extra difficulties in their life and try to find some answers by blaming others ...
    Everyone looks for responsible people and sacrifices easily the foreigners, the Jewish or the immigrants.
    In fact, i believe that everyone tries to reassure themselves by choosing another person as the cause of the problem.
    Therefore, we reject more easily those who are not like us =/ =/

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    1. I like this approach - You are absolutely right here!

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    2. true, unfortunately :(

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